Saturday, November 22, 2008

On the border

"It takes so little, so infinitely little," writes Milan
Kundera in The Book of Laughter and Forgetting,
"for a person to cross the border beyond which
everything loses meaning: love, convictions, faith,
history. Human life—and herein lies its secret—
takes place in the immediate proximity of that
border, even in direct contact with it; it is not
miles away, but a fraction of an inch."

And yet, John Cheever says in his journals, "The
most wonderful thing about life seems to be that
we hardly tap our potential for self-destruction.
We may desire it, it may be what we dream of, but
we are dissuaded by a beam of light, a change in
the wind."

3 comments:

Steve Withers said...

The two writers speak from perspectives on opposite sides of the line. But they do not appear to be very far apart.

Anonymous said...

Alright - enough already. A puppy-patting post followed by maudlin musing is scary enough, but this silence is just too much.
(some of us have hung on and appreciated every word for years: would it kill you to pick up the phone?)

Mary McCallum said...

thanks denis for reminding me about kundera and his genius - using your quote took me off onto all sorts of places on my blog - thanks